Is online dating getting worse?

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As the title says, is online dating getting worse?

What I mean is that many find that online dating in America is getting more dangerous, fraudulent, fake, complicated and shallow.

In one way, all of these are true.

Online dating all over the world has taken a turn for the worse, but mainly because many suppliers think more about their wallet than their members.

Most of the negative sides of online dating in America can be solved fairly easily with some creative thinking, a supportive team and also money.

Having unique features and a team that keep the dating site safe and clean will cost a lot of money, which most suppliers don’t have.

In other words, online dating hasn’t gotten any worse, the online dating sites have.

Choosing the best dating site in America for you is mandatory for finding someone who’s serious and genuine in their search for true love.

There are different types of dating sites for different types of people, yet most popular dating sites in America have the most basic and shallow features.

Kind of ironic if you ask me.

We want to find our soul mate, yet turn to free dating sites that promote a superficial way of dating or don’t offer any proper ways of finding serious relationships at all.

You basically check if the profile picture appeal to you and decide if you want to write to him or her or not.

Yes, some dating sites even offer a few sentences for profile text and the city you live in, but how can that in any way create an opening for something deeper?

Basically, the few that succeed on those sites are the ones who are patient, professional in communicating online, have a great photo and keep at it the longest or very lucky works too.

Most are regular kindhearted people who just want someone to love the rest of their lives, but these sites pushes those people to the sides.

I may come off as a little cynical here, but if you are honest with yourself, then you know that free online dating sites in America doesn’t offer much more than that.

However, there are a few that have taken the extra steps to ensure that their members have the best and safest experience possible with unique features that actually provide results for everyone.

Most of these dating sites have specific targeted groups, e.g. Single moms in America, loving men in America, homosexual singles in America etc.

These dating sites has focus on something that they believe people want, rather than focus on everything in the most basic way possible.

By being more specific in what you want and choosing an online dating site that actually provides some unique features in a safe environment, you can much easier find someone genuine that suits you perfect.

Another big benefit is that most fake, rude, fraudulent or unauthorized profiles will immediately be deleted and blocked on these sites since they have a team that works whole-heartedly on a different and better goal.

In other words, these sites have put money, heart and effort creating a dating site that actually can provide results based on inner qualities, values and interests.

Something deeper so to speak.

I have come across one site that isn’t too specific, yet provide exactly what I want a free dating site in America should provide.

Blinddate.com™ is a great online dating site in America that focus on inner qualities in the best way possible, namely through blind dating.

They got two features that I especially love, one is called Blinddate Match and the other is called Blinddate Hour.

Blindate Match is a feature where you take part in a famous psychological survey about who you are on the inside, the matches will later be based on the analyze from the answers you give and vice versa.

When you are matched with another member, you will also receive a short and fun presentation on how you match each other’s personalities, both the good and the bad.

If that sounds interesting, you can decide to start chatting with each other.

However, the profile picture will then remain hidden, but the more you write to each other, the clearer the picture will become.

This is an excellent way to promote ones inner qualities and let the first meeting be 100% personal, which also create possibilities for finding great new friends.

Blinddate Hour takes part each day between 9-10 PM EST, if you choose to take part in the future, then all pictures on the entire site will become hidden for you.

You then have to search for members based entirely on the information you find and see if he or she is someone you want to talk to.

When the time hits 10 PM EST, all pictures will become clear again and you can see whom you talked to.

Exciting, isn’t it?

I for one really recommend sites like Blinddate.com™ since they provide so many benefits to the dating community with the best and safest way possible.

I urge you to take a look at their site and see for yourself, I’m guessing that you’ll be happily surprised.

Either way, online dating is not getting worse at all, on the contrary.

Online dating is exploding on the market with millions of users already, and the statistics talk for online dating site and the relationships they’ve made possible.

Just make sure you choose the right one, or you will just waste your time, lust and energy.

Best of luck!

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Benefits of Online Dating

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We all know that online dating can become extremely fun and exciting, but is it really beneficial?

Well, the short answer would be that it depends what you are looking for.

An online dating site in America is an excellent choice to meet new and exciting people, regardless if you want it for a short time or for the rest of your life.

Most top dating sites in the USA promote themselves as the best dating site in America for a certain type of people.

The main one would be people who are in search for true love from within and long-lasting relationships based on their inner qualities.

However, we all know that most free dating sites in America market themselves as great for a certain purpose but delivers poorly.

This is for two reasons mainly.

One is that keeping a dating site safe and secure while providing great features that are unique cost a lot of money, time and effort.

The other is that many are out for your wallet, not your heart.

This is common sense.

There are a few sites that have the means to create a great looking dating site with amazing features; these are the ones you should look for.

Those are the best dating sites in America and will become beneficial regardless what you are looking for.

The rest will just consume your time, lust and energy for nothing.

I always recommend my friends to find a free dating site that gives you the possibility to evaluate the dating site before you choose if you should make it your own cupid.

Paying money for nothing or shallow ways is not the way to go if you are looking for true love.

An example of the latter is e.g. paying for a feature that lets you be seen more often by other members for a week.

You should search for a provider that offers more than just a profile picture and a short presentation.

Let’s go back to the benefits.

Online dating is great for many different things, not only finding love.

By communicating with others, you’ll also learn from others.

You will become more comfortable, confident and experienced the more you chat with and meet various people with different personalities and stories.

Even a bad date can create an opening for exceptional growth.

It can also create possibilities for you to find new careers and adventure, just make sure that you are not naïve and can trust the person first.

You can find a lot of new friends on your journey for love.

These are just a few of examples on benefits with using top dating sites in America.

However, if you are in search for something true and long-lasting, then you need to choose the right provider.

Follow the points I wrote above and use both your common sense and gut-feeling.

You will come a long way on this.

Experience and knowledge come with time.

I can highly recommend the dating site I use for meeting people online.

The name of the free dating site is Blinddate.com™.

I don’t want to say too much because I don’t want to spoil the surprise by joining them, but I can say that it’s very exciting there.

I mean it; the site gives me the good kind of chills.

Blinddate.com™ lets you try real blind dating online which may just be the most exciting and even the best way to meet someone for their inner qualities.

The free dating site is also beautifully built and very easy-to-use.

The support and team that works there make sure to provide help, tips and advice along the way.

You also got a more secure atmosphere there since the team makes sure that no fake, rude or unauthorized profile is allowed to be a part of Blinddate.com™.

I know, a little too much promoting, but in all honesty – the dating site is great!

Just make sure that you figure out what you truly want and take it from there. Do not listen to what the suppliers say, try it out for yourself.

When you know at least partly who you are, you will immediately know what kind of top free dating site you should use.

The benefits are endless then.

Best of luck to you!

Why are relationships complicated?

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In this article, I will mention a few opinions why I think many find relationships complicated and hard to keep.

Remember that these are my own opinions and doesn’t have to correspond to your own.

You are free to think and feel as you please.

I’ve been in three relationships myself in my entire life. First one was when I was fifteen and other two was in the last five years, I’m 32 years of age now.

First one lasted a year, second four years and the third a year again. In other words, the last one broke just a few months ago.

My thoughts have been circulating for a while now about why I can’t keep a steady relationship and I have a few ideas of why.

First one is kind of basic; we were not meant to be.

This is actually much more true than most would admit I think, since most don’t want to accept that something like that can be the case.

I mean, we were in love at some point and had great plans for the future, I think we rather stick to that thought rather than a waste of time.

The other reasons are communication and sacrifice.

Sometimes you need to put the one you love before your own interests, which many forget or don’t want anymore when the relationship is taken for granted.

Communication by speech and body-language is to express your feelings both good and bad, and also to solve issues before they become too big.

Most couples keep their feelings on the inside and sooner or later they explode for the most ridiculous reasons.

In my relationships, we lacked communication.
We thought that some issues didn’t matter until it ate our lust and energy so slowly that we didn’t realize it before it was too late.

This is partly my fault and their fault, if one can’t dance the other one has to lead in the beginning.

You always need two to Tango.

However, the reason why I think 90% of all relationships end is because of the first reason – not meant for each other.

We give all our love, time and energy for something and sometimes it just doesn’t work.

Better to accept it and embrace the feelings instead of hiding from it.

All of my relationships were found through friends.

Each of these girls was the best girl I had at the moment, that doesn’t mean that we were necessarily right for each other.

We based our decision on the information we had at the moment, being lonely and need of intimacy was a huge factor as well.

It’s nice to just have someone, even if they may not be the one.

I believe in giving the relationship more time to grow and become strong before you make it more or less official.

Not knowing the person on the inside and on a deeper level may crash the relationship in the future.

We usually show our own “faults” a few months in, when the new love feeling has faded and everything goes back to normal.

Basically, let love grow slowly instead of forcing it because you miss it.

Two weeks ago, I tried blind dating for the first time.

It was awkward, scary, but very interesting.
You learned a lot in the few hours you were there, but it didn’t end up with a date in my case.

I started Google on blind dating since I was intrigued and found a free online dating site called Blinddate.com™.

I have just used the site for around 10 days, but it opened my eyes to something, namely everything I wrote above on what was good for love.

They decided to create an online dating site for American singles that focus entirely on the information, or inner qualities to be more specific.

Basically, you start to know the inner qualities and break the eyes before you even meet!

With thousands of different people and personalities, you don’t have to meet the one who seems great at the moment, you can actually give it time and let it grow to find the best one for you, and vice versa.

I love the idea and I know it may be too early to praise the site, but I genuinely love the idea of blind dating online in a more secure environment.

I’m sorry for rambling on and on, I hope that I made a little sense at least.

Try blinddate.com™ and let love start from within, but in a slow pace that both can enjoy to creating something deeper.

Then you won’t need to see relationships as complicated any more.

Good luck!

Will online dating cost me anything?

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Yes, online dating does cost you something, but maybe not in the way you think.

Most who read the title think about money when they read the word “cost”, but many forget about lust, time and energy.

However, the right lifestyle for you together with the right choice of dating site will give you lust, time and energy instead.

Money will still be a cost, but the few dollars you pay may become an investment for life.

Though again, only if you choose the right kind of online dating site.

Most dating sites today follow a kind of shallow approach.

However, you can’t blame most of them for being simple and easy for everyone to use.

You register – put up a nice profile picture, a few sweet sentences as profile text and then you search for people based on the looks of their profile picture.

Very few read the profile text at all on those sites and most just read a few of the sentences with little to no interest.

Basically, most sites today are extremely superficial.

In my opinion, this cost lust, time and energy much more than it should.

To give you another example, most online dating sites today, has features which follow the above principles exactly, but for a few dollars, you can show your profile picture to even more members for a week.

Some dating sites even allow you to rate the profile picture and give you a clever icon like “this weeks hottest”.

This saddens me because it won’t give most the results they want – which is true love with someone genuine and serious.

This cost even more, namely – money, lust, time and energy.

It might even put your self-esteem and will to a negative.

Expensive if you ask me.

What can you do then?

Have you ever heard this quote? – “Work smarter, not harder.”

This applies in dating and love as well.

Choosing the right dating site will cost you nothing, you will only gain from it and you won’t have to put as much of an effort in.

You don’t need to crave attention, be someone else, pretend to be happy all the time, play games, focus on your profile look, spend money or anything else if you just know what you should look for.

A great dating site in America will do that for you.

Yes, dating sites need money too, and have a big interest in earning revenue.

Dating sites are a business too, but they don’t need to take money from members with useless junk just to earn a buck.

They can get revenue from affiliation, commercials, sales, information and marketing or even sell their site in the future.

In other words, you can find a great looking dating site with great features that is still free of charge toits members.

Let me give you an example on a free dating site I use.

Blinddate.com is not new on the market, have years of experience and have exploded on the market because of their unique features.

If you are looking for true love in America based on inner qualities, then this is the best dating site in America hands down.

More importantly, it’s free.

They have other ways to earn money without affecting its members.

It won’t cost you a dime, but you will gain a lot from it.

Yes, they do have some features that you can buy that are effective, but you don’t need them to find someone special in America.

They got two different features that I especially love, one is Blinddate Match and the other is Blinddate Hour.

I use them both and can highly recommend them to anyone who wants to try exciting blind dating online.

Basically, this free dating site focuses entirely on inner beauty to create something that really lasts.

They have a lot more to offer for those who want to take it slow, but I urge you to at least take a look at these features to evaluate them yourself.

You will with no doubt gain lust, time and energy, even true love if you are willing.

I want to highlight the word “willing”, because it’s not about luck on that site.

In any case, make sure you date smart and not hard.

There are thousands of free dating sites out there that offer the very best, but there are only very few that really delivers.

Don’t listen to anyone or any supplier, see it for yourself.

I can only recommend what I know works for me and those around me, but only you know what is best for you.

Best of luck!

Is Love Possible Through Online Dating?

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Just reading the title would make most answer “Yes”, but the answer has most often come from common sense rather than experience.

Isn’t it weird that we have so much statistics in America that online dating works, but still have so many singles that don’t know if they can agree or disagree with those numbers?

The fact is, America has a huge population of singles, more than 50% to be more exact.

Why is that?

Well, there are many different factors as to why there are so many singles left in America.

Even with thousands of dating seminars, dating sites, pick-up artists, blind dating nights, social gatherings, dating events and much more, the number of singles in America is still as high as ever.

The most common reasons as to why this is happening are these:

  • Being too picky, shallow or too self-loving.
  • Occupied with kids, work, studies, distances, goals and dreams.
  • Too scared, worried, lost or confused.
  • Lack of knowledge on how to communicate and express yourself.
  • Too desperate and putting your happiness in someone else’s hands.

There are many more reasons, but these are the ones that I come across the most in America.

Many of these above are positive as well, e.g. chasing careers, dreams and goals.
Another positive reason can be a single mother who only wants the best for herself and her kids and don’t settle for anything less.

Being single, strong and independent is not a bad thing at all.

Having things that make you single against your will for personal or social reasons are worse.

Unfortunately, most singles have one or many of these factors put together.
It can for example be that one is single, work two jobs, have children, bad breakup in the past and long distances to the city.

These are not exactly optimal situations if you are looking or true love in America.
Another bad habit is that many are too scared, comfortable, arrogant, naïve, confused or lost in how to change their life and situation.

It’s much easier to do what you have always done and failure is a no go.
This does not only affect your love life, but your entire life and what you can gain from it.

True love is possible through online dating, but you need to figure yourself out and be honest as to why you haven’t found what you are looking for or have the life you always wanted.

It can seem as there is no way out, but there is no matter what has happened or is happening in your life.

You also need to understand that communicating online on a dating site is not the same as communicating in real.

You do not have the luxury of using body language, tones or expressions to show what you want, think and feel.

However, you get a lot of other perks for it when you try online dating out.

Give it time, it will come to you faster than you think, but you need a little persistence and patients when you use a top dating site in America.

If you want a recommendation for a free dating site in America that I use, then I can highly recommend Blinddate.com™.

What is fascinating is that they have managed to create a top free dating site that also helps you on your journey of love.

They provide tips, tricks, advice and recommendation so you can get the most out of your online dating experience.

You also got the blind dating options like Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour which may just be the best features ever to promote one’s inner qualities and connect two hearts based on a more personal and deeper level.

I highly recommend you to check them out and look at the video so you get a better understanding of them, they create fantastic results.

Blinddate.com™ has also made sure that no rude, fake or unauthorized profiles are allowed to stay on the site.

If you put all these elements together, then you can be sure that each and every member has put in effort to make this community safe, secure, fun and most of all – genuine.

Either way, focus on yourself and strive to grow to be the best possible version of yourself every day.

True love will come knocking at your door when you have everything else on track in your life personally.

I urge you to read the book “Law of Attraction”, there is much more to it than just plain positivity.

Practice those thoughts and join Blinddate.com™, your life will sky-rocket to new amazing chapters within the first month.

Do and Dont’s of Online Dating

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Are you a fan of online dating for meeting new and interesting people? Well, then you have come to the right place.

I started my own journey through Online Dating about three years ago now, and thanks to one online dating site that I’ve found and will recommend, I’m now happily married and we are waiting our first child.

Top free online dating sites are a great way to get to know new people all over the country, and one of those meetings might change your life forever.

I feel that there are several reasons why online dating is the best choice for finding love or new long-lasting friends.

The first advantage is that online dating makes the process of meeting someone new more safe and secure.

You chat from the safety of your phone, tablet or computer, and will already have some information about the person before the conversation even started.
Based on the information you see, you can easily choose if you want to proceed, move on or even block someone.

Another advantage is that every member is there for the same reason as you are – to find true love.

Top free online dating sites have thousands of members that are single and ready to meet someone genuine and serious.

Basically, online dating is a community of people looking for something with a deeper meaning.

A few sites offer a variety of features that can promote and help certain parts on your journey of love.

Some can even provide tips, tricks and advice from day one, to the day you meet each other.

Another advantage is that the messages and contacts will wait for you until you have time.

Sure, if you wait too long then the person might move on to someone else.
But you can easily contact a few, go on with your everyday business and read the possible answers in the nights.

It won’t affect your personal life negative at all, just bring positivity.

One more advantage is that you will grow as a person and gain knowledge that will be useful in the life you have outside the screen.

How to communicate, how to flirt, how to market oneself and so on.
There are even more advantages if you put your mind into it.

However, online dating also has a few negative sides, and these sides only come from the members’ themselves.

That is why I wanted to write an article about do’s and dont’s of online dating.

Let’s start with the negative and the dont’s.

I wrote above that online dating is like a community for people who is looking for someone with a deeper meaning, or more specific – long-lasting and true love.

Some people can’t or find it too complicated to find someone spontaneous, some have a bad past and some are too shy or worried.

Unfortunately, I have found that many use these feelings or situations as vulnerabilities to take advantage of.

These guys and girls are looking to deceive for personal gain and do not have the best intentions for the other person.

Don’t do this to good people, be honest with what you want.

Please do not send weird pictures to random people, it’s neither impressive, nor fun to see that uncomfortable and disgusting side of yourself.

Keep that to sites that promote these acts.

Another thing you should never do is to use free online dating sites for marketing purposes, fraud, attention seeking and bad behavior.

Words can hurt and mislead much more than you think, and internet bullying is a crime that is to be taken seriously.

Even through online dating.

If someone does not agree with what you think or won’t answer your messages, then move on and don’t start an unnecessary fight that won’t lead to anything good.

What can you do then?

The simple answer would be everything.

As long as you are honest with who you are and what you want, keeping a genuine profile and being polite, then there is no limit as to what you can do and gain.

Let the inner qualities take the center of the stage and make sure that you treat others and you would like to be treated.

Help to create an atmosphere that is safe, fun and rewarding at the same time.
If you see someone who are mostly leaning towards the dont’s then do’s, then report them immediately to the supplier of the online dating site.

Regarding inner qualities, I truly recommend you to give the free online dating site Blinddate.com™ a chance.

This online dating site were created so that people can become friends and find love based on who they truly are on the inside, what they are interested in and what they value.

The top online dating site is also very secure and keep a good eye on its members’, each member is validated through a unique process.

What is great about this online dating site is that its members are much more serious and honest.

Every member has given their time and effort to create a page that focuses on your personality, not a shallow surface, this makes them so much more genuine.

I urge you to take a look at Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour, these two features will give a new meaning to online dating and provide much greater results for long-lasting and true love.

Good luck with everything!

Online Dating Tips for Men

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Welcome to my article about online dating tips for men.

Now, I’m not an expert on this, but I do have some experience.

Hopefully, my experience will be of use to you so that you can get the most out of online dating as a man.

To start it simple – online dating sites are easy, women are not.

No matter how you look at it, women are complicated creatures.

However, we love them dearly and can’t live without them.

No matter how tough you are, a great loving girl can break every shell and make you feel all soft inside.

Though, finding a great loving woman is not that easy, and it’s become even harder if you are looking for the right one.

However, they are out there and there is not only one that is right for you out there, there are several.

How do I as a man get the most out of online dating then?

Well, let’s start with the basics.

First of all, you need to have confidence and meaning in your life.

What I mean is that you need to have a life outside the screen, and you need to be confident enough to express yourself.

The more you experience and grow as a person, the more you will be able to tell and show to your potential date.

This includes online dating as well, you will be much more interesting if you can market yourself as someone fun, spontaneous and adventurous.

Almost like you don’t have time for online dating.

As I wrote above, you also need to be confident enough to express yourself.
You don’t need to be a macho Casanova, but you need to be able to say what you think and feel without sounding rude, desperate or arrogant.

This shows women a sense of security and maturity.

Communication is key when it comes to long-lasting and true love.

Let’s say that your personality and lifestyle is all set, now it’s time to set up a great profile and market yourself.

It sounds harsh to involve the word “market”, but that’s what it is.

Start with a profile picture that actually looks like you, no fancy angles.

The profile text should include who you are, what you look for, what you offer together with creativity and humor.

What kind of profile text would you fall for?

Always keep it positive when you try online dating, no matter how you actually might feel. No good catch wants to be with someone who is stuck in the past or bring up negative feelings for the present, especially before you really know each other.

When all that is set, then it’s time to start contacting women that might interest you.

Many of us focus way too much on the looks before anything else, this is wrong.

I’m not saying that having a personal preference is wrong, but it’s wrong to base your decision on the looks above all else.

If you seek someone who will love and enrich your life without a lot of complications, then you need to let the inner qualities take the center of the stage.

There is no dancing around this.

You can find someone great looking with a beautiful inside too, but you need to let yourself see what’s beyond the shallow surface.

When you finally found a match that you want to talk to, it’s time to figure out a great opening.

You can either start with why you found her interesting, or something way out of context that has humor in it.

Avoid cliché questions that everybody asks, she already receives these a few hundred times a month.

You can e.g. ask how she is, but do not open with it.

Read the message you want to send before you send it and see if you would like a similar message yourself.

If she answers and show interest back, then be yourself and keep using the above.

If she answers in a short or rude way, then move on and find someone worthy of your time.

She might be shy, so you can give the conversation a few tries if you are not sure.

These are some basic tips about online dating for men, hope this gave you some insight on the journey of love.

I have one more tips to give before the article ends and that is where you can get the best results in a fun and exciting way.

I mentioned above about the inner qualities, Blinddate.com™ offers several features that really promote them.

I use it myself and have found it to be my favorite free online dating site so far, and I have tried a few.

Online dating should be a great place for finding true based on matching personalities, at Blinddate.com™ you will have several options to do so.

I recommend you to give Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour a shot if you seek someone for a serious relationship, these are by far the best features I have tried online for meeting people based on who they really are.

Just take a look and you will probably feel the same way as I do.

Good luck and all the best!