Is online dating getting worse?

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As the title says, is online dating getting worse?

What I mean is that many find that online dating in America is getting more dangerous, fraudulent, fake, complicated and shallow.

In one way, all of these are true.

Online dating all over the world has taken a turn for the worse, but mainly because many suppliers think more about their wallet than their members.

Most of the negative sides of online dating in America can be solved fairly easily with some creative thinking, a supportive team and also money.

Having unique features and a team that keep the dating site safe and clean will cost a lot of money, which most suppliers don’t have.

In other words, online dating hasn’t gotten any worse, the online dating sites have.

Choosing the best dating site in America for you is mandatory for finding someone who’s serious and genuine in their search for true love.

There are different types of dating sites for different types of people, yet most popular dating sites in America have the most basic and shallow features.

Kind of ironic if you ask me.

We want to find our soul mate, yet turn to free dating sites that promote a superficial way of dating or don’t offer any proper ways of finding serious relationships at all.

You basically check if the profile picture appeal to you and decide if you want to write to him or her or not.

Yes, some dating sites even offer a few sentences for profile text and the city you live in, but how can that in any way create an opening for something deeper?

Basically, the few that succeed on those sites are the ones who are patient, professional in communicating online, have a great photo and keep at it the longest or very lucky works too.

Most are regular kindhearted people who just want someone to love the rest of their lives, but these sites pushes those people to the sides.

I may come off as a little cynical here, but if you are honest with yourself, then you know that free online dating sites in America doesn’t offer much more than that.

However, there are a few that have taken the extra steps to ensure that their members have the best and safest experience possible with unique features that actually provide results for everyone.

Most of these dating sites have specific targeted groups, e.g. Single moms in America, loving men in America, homosexual singles in America etc.

These dating sites has focus on something that they believe people want, rather than focus on everything in the most basic way possible.

By being more specific in what you want and choosing an online dating site that actually provides some unique features in a safe environment, you can much easier find someone genuine that suits you perfect.

Another big benefit is that most fake, rude, fraudulent or unauthorized profiles will immediately be deleted and blocked on these sites since they have a team that works whole-heartedly on a different and better goal.

In other words, these sites have put money, heart and effort creating a dating site that actually can provide results based on inner qualities, values and interests.

Something deeper so to speak.

I have come across one site that isn’t too specific, yet provide exactly what I want a free dating site in America should provide.

Blinddate.com™ is a great online dating site in America that focus on inner qualities in the best way possible, namely through blind dating.

They got two features that I especially love, one is called Blinddate Match and the other is called Blinddate Hour.

Blindate Match is a feature where you take part in a famous psychological survey about who you are on the inside, the matches will later be based on the analyze from the answers you give and vice versa.

When you are matched with another member, you will also receive a short and fun presentation on how you match each other’s personalities, both the good and the bad.

If that sounds interesting, you can decide to start chatting with each other.

However, the profile picture will then remain hidden, but the more you write to each other, the clearer the picture will become.

This is an excellent way to promote ones inner qualities and let the first meeting be 100% personal, which also create possibilities for finding great new friends.

Blinddate Hour takes part each day between 9-10 PM EST, if you choose to take part in the future, then all pictures on the entire site will become hidden for you.

You then have to search for members based entirely on the information you find and see if he or she is someone you want to talk to.

When the time hits 10 PM EST, all pictures will become clear again and you can see whom you talked to.

Exciting, isn’t it?

I for one really recommend sites like Blinddate.com™ since they provide so many benefits to the dating community with the best and safest way possible.

I urge you to take a look at their site and see for yourself, I’m guessing that you’ll be happily surprised.

Either way, online dating is not getting worse at all, on the contrary.

Online dating is exploding on the market with millions of users already, and the statistics talk for online dating site and the relationships they’ve made possible.

Just make sure you choose the right one, or you will just waste your time, lust and energy.

Best of luck!

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Love and online dating when you’re retired

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Love is not a feeling that changes with age, but how we think is.

The only thing that change with age is how we look at things and how we react to our emotions.

Love however, will stay the same no matter if we’re young or old, if you let love in.

In my years alone from the age of 52 to 63, I’ve only seen a few couples in my age that hold hands and act as they are in the mid twenties.

I’m now 67 myself, and been with the same man for the past 4 years.

We hold hands, we kiss in public and we make sure we travel the world as much as our bodies can take.

Most of my friends have been married for over 30 years and I feel that many of them are together because they don’t have the energy or self-esteem to start over.

One of my friends even said the words -”I’m too old to start over now”.

If that is something you as a reader have said, then i would immediately say that those words are utterly wrong.

Don’t give up on life and settle for less just because you’re older, always live life to the fullest as much as you can.

I can understand that some have sickness or other things that have a tendency of limiting the way you want to live your life.

However, we humans have an amazing way of adapting to our situation and surroundings, so I bet that 99% of you can change your life for the better in a very short period of time.

Don’t let normal problems come in the way of love, they are entirely different things no matter how you look at them.

Love can also open doors to help you get through almost anything in life.

First things first, how do you find love as one of thousands of retired singles in America?

Well, if you do have some energy and love for adventure in your body, then I recommend you to travel the world.

There is nothing better for your soul than to meet other people from other culture and shake your hips a little.

Some don’t like to travel too much and want to be in a safe and cozy environment, for you I recommend meeting friends and try to attend as many social gatherings as you can.

There are literally thousands of retired singles in America that long for meeting their true soul mate, even in your state.

There are another way as well, a more easy and exciting way that helped me meet my true love in America.

I used something called online dating.

Blinddate.com™ is the name of the dating site for retired singles in America. The free online dating site is actually for everyone of all ages, but they offer something that we retired people find a little more important than most youngsters.

They offer love from within, meeting someone for who they actually are.

They got two features that are amazing for just this purpose, and the first one is the one I used to meet my current Romeo.

These features are Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour.

Blinddate Match helps you become matched with other people based on who you are, value and is interested in.

When you find one that catch your interest, you will also be presented a short text that will tell just how you match each other on a personal level, both the good and the bad.

If that sounds interesting the excitement starts.

You will now start chatting with each other, but without seeing each others profile pictures.

The more you write to each other, the clearer the pictures become.

Great way of meeting someone from within and it will create an opening of meeting great new friends as well in the process.

Blinddate Hour follows a similar principle, but take time between 9 – 10 PM EST every day if they still offer the same as they offered me.

If you participate, all profile pictures will become hidden and you can now search and chat with different members based on the information you find.

You can see the pictures and who you talk to again when the time hit 10 PM EST.
This is also a great way if finding someone for who they really are.

I can truly recommend everyone to give online dating for retired people in America a chance, especially the one I recommended above.

This is because it worked for me and it will work for you, plus you don’t have to deal with complicated features or people who are not there for serious purposes.

You are wonderful, like a fine whiskey that just become better for each year that follows, don’t be alone when you can be loved.

Let yourself try something now, you will be surprised by the results.

Will online dating cost me anything?

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Yes, online dating does cost you something, but maybe not in the way you think.

Most who read the title think about money when they read the word “cost”, but many forget about lust, time and energy.

However, the right lifestyle for you together with the right choice of dating site will give you lust, time and energy instead.

Money will still be a cost, but the few dollars you pay may become an investment for life.

Though again, only if you choose the right kind of online dating site.

Most dating sites today follow a kind of shallow approach.

However, you can’t blame most of them for being simple and easy for everyone to use.

You register – put up a nice profile picture, a few sweet sentences as profile text and then you search for people based on the looks of their profile picture.

Very few read the profile text at all on those sites and most just read a few of the sentences with little to no interest.

Basically, most sites today are extremely superficial.

In my opinion, this cost lust, time and energy much more than it should.

To give you another example, most online dating sites today, has features which follow the above principles exactly, but for a few dollars, you can show your profile picture to even more members for a week.

Some dating sites even allow you to rate the profile picture and give you a clever icon like “this weeks hottest”.

This saddens me because it won’t give most the results they want – which is true love with someone genuine and serious.

This cost even more, namely – money, lust, time and energy.

It might even put your self-esteem and will to a negative.

Expensive if you ask me.

What can you do then?

Have you ever heard this quote? – “Work smarter, not harder.”

This applies in dating and love as well.

Choosing the right dating site will cost you nothing, you will only gain from it and you won’t have to put as much of an effort in.

You don’t need to crave attention, be someone else, pretend to be happy all the time, play games, focus on your profile look, spend money or anything else if you just know what you should look for.

A great dating site in America will do that for you.

Yes, dating sites need money too, and have a big interest in earning revenue.

Dating sites are a business too, but they don’t need to take money from members with useless junk just to earn a buck.

They can get revenue from affiliation, commercials, sales, information and marketing or even sell their site in the future.

In other words, you can find a great looking dating site with great features that is still free of charge toits members.

Let me give you an example on a free dating site I use.

Blinddate.com is not new on the market, have years of experience and have exploded on the market because of their unique features.

If you are looking for true love in America based on inner qualities, then this is the best dating site in America hands down.

More importantly, it’s free.

They have other ways to earn money without affecting its members.

It won’t cost you a dime, but you will gain a lot from it.

Yes, they do have some features that you can buy that are effective, but you don’t need them to find someone special in America.

They got two different features that I especially love, one is Blinddate Match and the other is Blinddate Hour.

I use them both and can highly recommend them to anyone who wants to try exciting blind dating online.

Basically, this free dating site focuses entirely on inner beauty to create something that really lasts.

They have a lot more to offer for those who want to take it slow, but I urge you to at least take a look at these features to evaluate them yourself.

You will with no doubt gain lust, time and energy, even true love if you are willing.

I want to highlight the word “willing”, because it’s not about luck on that site.

In any case, make sure you date smart and not hard.

There are thousands of free dating sites out there that offer the very best, but there are only very few that really delivers.

Don’t listen to anyone or any supplier, see it for yourself.

I can only recommend what I know works for me and those around me, but only you know what is best for you.

Best of luck!

Do and Dont’s of Online Dating

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Are you a fan of online dating for meeting new and interesting people? Well, then you have come to the right place.

I started my own journey through Online Dating about three years ago now, and thanks to one online dating site that I’ve found and will recommend, I’m now happily married and we are waiting our first child.

Top free online dating sites are a great way to get to know new people all over the country, and one of those meetings might change your life forever.

I feel that there are several reasons why online dating is the best choice for finding love or new long-lasting friends.

The first advantage is that online dating makes the process of meeting someone new more safe and secure.

You chat from the safety of your phone, tablet or computer, and will already have some information about the person before the conversation even started.
Based on the information you see, you can easily choose if you want to proceed, move on or even block someone.

Another advantage is that every member is there for the same reason as you are – to find true love.

Top free online dating sites have thousands of members that are single and ready to meet someone genuine and serious.

Basically, online dating is a community of people looking for something with a deeper meaning.

A few sites offer a variety of features that can promote and help certain parts on your journey of love.

Some can even provide tips, tricks and advice from day one, to the day you meet each other.

Another advantage is that the messages and contacts will wait for you until you have time.

Sure, if you wait too long then the person might move on to someone else.
But you can easily contact a few, go on with your everyday business and read the possible answers in the nights.

It won’t affect your personal life negative at all, just bring positivity.

One more advantage is that you will grow as a person and gain knowledge that will be useful in the life you have outside the screen.

How to communicate, how to flirt, how to market oneself and so on.
There are even more advantages if you put your mind into it.

However, online dating also has a few negative sides, and these sides only come from the members’ themselves.

That is why I wanted to write an article about do’s and dont’s of online dating.

Let’s start with the negative and the dont’s.

I wrote above that online dating is like a community for people who is looking for someone with a deeper meaning, or more specific – long-lasting and true love.

Some people can’t or find it too complicated to find someone spontaneous, some have a bad past and some are too shy or worried.

Unfortunately, I have found that many use these feelings or situations as vulnerabilities to take advantage of.

These guys and girls are looking to deceive for personal gain and do not have the best intentions for the other person.

Don’t do this to good people, be honest with what you want.

Please do not send weird pictures to random people, it’s neither impressive, nor fun to see that uncomfortable and disgusting side of yourself.

Keep that to sites that promote these acts.

Another thing you should never do is to use free online dating sites for marketing purposes, fraud, attention seeking and bad behavior.

Words can hurt and mislead much more than you think, and internet bullying is a crime that is to be taken seriously.

Even through online dating.

If someone does not agree with what you think or won’t answer your messages, then move on and don’t start an unnecessary fight that won’t lead to anything good.

What can you do then?

The simple answer would be everything.

As long as you are honest with who you are and what you want, keeping a genuine profile and being polite, then there is no limit as to what you can do and gain.

Let the inner qualities take the center of the stage and make sure that you treat others and you would like to be treated.

Help to create an atmosphere that is safe, fun and rewarding at the same time.
If you see someone who are mostly leaning towards the dont’s then do’s, then report them immediately to the supplier of the online dating site.

Regarding inner qualities, I truly recommend you to give the free online dating site Blinddate.com™ a chance.

This online dating site were created so that people can become friends and find love based on who they truly are on the inside, what they are interested in and what they value.

The top online dating site is also very secure and keep a good eye on its members’, each member is validated through a unique process.

What is great about this online dating site is that its members are much more serious and honest.

Every member has given their time and effort to create a page that focuses on your personality, not a shallow surface, this makes them so much more genuine.

I urge you to take a look at Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour, these two features will give a new meaning to online dating and provide much greater results for long-lasting and true love.

Good luck with everything!