Which online dating sites should you avoid?

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I’m guessing that many of you who read the title think I will blast and blame several sites in the dating community, this is wrong.

I’m here to give my opinion on what you should and shouldn’t look for in a free online dating site in America.

There is a reason why millions are turning to online dating world-wide, isn’t it strange that so many are still single?

If you make one quick Google search on dating statistics in America, you will find thousands of different surveys and numbers that tell the benefits of using an online dating site.

Most of these are very true, and even if some numbers may be a little off – the benefits are still well documented and positive.

When and if you are in the look for the perfect dating site in America for yourself, then you need to first figure out what lead to that thought and feeling.

The need or interest in a dating site doesn’t come from nothing, there is a reason and the reason can both be serious or simple.

The most common reasons are:

  • Lack of time, energy or lust to find someone outside the internet.
  • Distances and lack of transport to or from the destination.
  • Lonely or in need of intimacy.
  • Lack of interesting people in your area or comfort-zone.
  • Tired of alcohol and pushy people.
  • Looking for more serious and genuine people than what you’ve found.
  • Single mother or single father looking for long-term relationships.
  • Retired people wanting to feel love again, but find it hard to find someone.
  • Personal issues like e.g. trust, insecurity or self-esteem.

As you can see, there are a lot of reasons why someone turn to online dating.
There are more, but these are the most common.

All of these examples are negative in a sense, but can turn into something very positive.

An inside or outside element has created one of the possibilities above, but they can be turned and online dating sites are an excellent choice for it.

However, not all dating sites.

Some sites can actually create more negative elements on your journey for love, choosing the best one for you is crucial for finding true love online.

Most free online dating sites in America offer their own pros and cons.
In my opinion, mostly cons.

Why is that?

Well, most online dating sites for finding true love in America is too underdeveloped, shallow, complicated, expensive and simple.

I will give you a few examples:

  • If you choose an online dating site that promotes your looks instead of your inner qualities, guess what response you’ll get.
  • If you choose a simple online dating site that doesn’t have a reliable support, security, validation process and controllers, guess what kind of people you’ll meet.
  • If you choose an online dating site that tries to push you on buying perks like “be seen more for a week”, that will just take you back to the first example here on looks.
  • If you choose an online dating site that forces you to take a lot of steps just to get started, then you may as well put your time elsewhere.

What should you look for?

Well, everything opposite actually.

Most online dating sites for finding love and long-term relationships in America are basic – a profile picture, few sentences for a profile text and a chat- & search feature.

This works on good online dating sites that promote a specific target group.

Examples you can search for are; Single trainers in America, Single moms in America, Single fathers in America, Retired singles in America, Interracial singles in America, you name it.

The more specific you are – the better, but they will most likely have fewer members and less money to run the dating site with.

I recommend you try finding specific features instead, that will give you a higher chance finding something new and exciting that actually work.

They may have fewer members as well, but using unique features cost a lot of money, dedication and knowledge – best online dating site possible in other words.

To recommend one, I urge you to take a look at Blinddate.com™.

This free online dating site is both lavish and more specific, but not to a targeted group per sé.

They focus on love from the inside, your inner qualities in other words.

Their features are developed to promote who you are and place your personality first before anything else.

You can try real blind dating in America with exciting features like e.g. Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour.

The first feature matches you with other members based on a psychological test on who you really are, you will also receive a short and fun presentation of each match.

If you find it interesting and you both want to chat with each other, then your profile pictures will become hidden.

The more you talk to each other, the clearer the pictures become.

See the video on their site to know more about these exciting features.

The second one is a time-based features which follow a different protocol, but with the same goal.

Blinddate.com is growing fast on the market in several countries and may be the best online dating site in America for true love from within.
At least that’s my opinion.

Check it out!

I think you understand where I’m going with this article and I really hope you take a deeper look on the dating site you’re about to use.

Choosing the wrong one will take your time and energy, and will also affect your personal feelings and opinions to the worse.

Choose from your heart, not the suppliers marketing tricks.

Best of luck!