Tips for Online Dating Conversations

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It’s always fun to talk to new and interesting people. I mean, one of the best things in life is being able to grow as a person and experience new things, what better way to do that then meeting inspiring people?

If you are truly lucky and hit the jackpot, then you might even find true love which is not only making you grow, it gives a whole new meaning to your life.

However, meeting new and interesting people will take some time and energy from you, which is something many of us don’t have.

Well, we actually do have the time and energy, but we spend it on responsibilities and the rest gets wasted on things that don’t matter.

For example, if you work really hard one day and just got back home, then meeting someone new over a nice time on the coach in front of the tv would be unlikely.

However, meeting someone new will give a much more positive effect on your life, regardless if you are right for each other or not.

You will still grow as a person and you will also have the chance to gain even more out of life through different opportunities that might present itself.

If you are one of those people that don’t feel they have time or energy to meet someone new or even love for that matter, but still want it, then there is a solution.
Online dating is a perfect tool that allows you to talk and meet exciting new people all on your terms.

Write in the morning and answer in the night, it’s that simple.

By being a member on an online dating site, you also put yourself in an online community with various members that are in the search for something new themselves.

Instead of real life for example where there is a much higher risk that one might be susceptible and one is not, leading nowhere.

However, choosing the right online dating site and learning how to communicate online is crucial for great results.

Let’s start with the first one – choosing the right online dating site.
We all know that most free online dating sites have taken a too shallow approach on things.

You put up a great looking profile picture and write a few sentences for your presentation, then you might pay a little money to be seen by other user more for a week.

A few of them even let rating be their main features, which is even more shallow.

On these sites, it’s almost imperative that you look good and know how to act to catch someone great.

I recommend you to use a free matchmaking site so that you can evaluate it before you might pay for some of their features.

I also recommend you to use an online dating site that promotes your inner qualities and have more validated members.

I want to emphasize the importance of finding a free online dating site that has features that actually does this, not just say they do.

A great recommendation is the blind dating site – Blinddate.com™.

It cannot become any more personal than through blind dating, which foundation is built on personalities before everything else.

This online dating site lets you try this in a much safer and secure environment, and it’s so much fun!

Take a look at Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour which are their main features for meeting true love with a deeper meaning, or in a worst case scenario – great new friends.

Let’s move to the next step which is communication.

To make the conversation lead somewhere and give you the best chances of finding love, then here are a few tips.

  • Make sure you always keep it positive. We all have things in our past or present that makes us feel a certain way, don’t bring the negative to the table if you want to find true love.
  • Include humor. It doesn’t matter if you read a few surveys on dating or talk to people about it directly, everyone will say that humor is a trait they love and is attracted to.
  • Don’t make a big deal out of it. Relax and try your wings a little, if you don’t get a positive response for being yourself, then the person isn’t right for you.
  • Experience life outside so you can bring it inside. The more you know and experience in life, the more you will be able to bring to the table. Everyone loves people who make the most out of life.
  • Do not fight. Don’t start an argument with someone online that won’t lead anywhere, that negativity drains your energy.
  • It is not always what it seems. Today, we use smileys and all kinds of words and slang to express our “feelings” online. You do not need to read word for word or take things literally. People write in a certain way when they are stressed, sad, happy, angry or excited.
    You can e.g. receive an answer that is not to your liking, but the answer might be temporary because of a certain situation, it’s not personal.
    However, it’s a difference between back-off and give me time.
  • Shock for progress. If you can’t get the conversation to lead anywhere, especially at the start, then shock him or her with something unique.
    All the standard questions and compliments is something most receive on a daily basis.
    Write e.g. – “I saw an Ice Cream yesterday that really reminds me of you”.
    It doesn’t have to make sense.
  • Be interested. If you really want someone to feel for you, then you need to put an effort in getting to know them. Why did you write to him in the first place beside his looks?
    However, if they don’t show interest in getting to know you back and the conversation only goes one way, then move on.

I hope you found my tips helpful!

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Online Dating Tips for Men

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Welcome to my article about online dating tips for men.

Now, I’m not an expert on this, but I do have some experience.

Hopefully, my experience will be of use to you so that you can get the most out of online dating as a man.

To start it simple – online dating sites are easy, women are not.

No matter how you look at it, women are complicated creatures.

However, we love them dearly and can’t live without them.

No matter how tough you are, a great loving girl can break every shell and make you feel all soft inside.

Though, finding a great loving woman is not that easy, and it’s become even harder if you are looking for the right one.

However, they are out there and there is not only one that is right for you out there, there are several.

How do I as a man get the most out of online dating then?

Well, let’s start with the basics.

First of all, you need to have confidence and meaning in your life.

What I mean is that you need to have a life outside the screen, and you need to be confident enough to express yourself.

The more you experience and grow as a person, the more you will be able to tell and show to your potential date.

This includes online dating as well, you will be much more interesting if you can market yourself as someone fun, spontaneous and adventurous.

Almost like you don’t have time for online dating.

As I wrote above, you also need to be confident enough to express yourself.
You don’t need to be a macho Casanova, but you need to be able to say what you think and feel without sounding rude, desperate or arrogant.

This shows women a sense of security and maturity.

Communication is key when it comes to long-lasting and true love.

Let’s say that your personality and lifestyle is all set, now it’s time to set up a great profile and market yourself.

It sounds harsh to involve the word “market”, but that’s what it is.

Start with a profile picture that actually looks like you, no fancy angles.

The profile text should include who you are, what you look for, what you offer together with creativity and humor.

What kind of profile text would you fall for?

Always keep it positive when you try online dating, no matter how you actually might feel. No good catch wants to be with someone who is stuck in the past or bring up negative feelings for the present, especially before you really know each other.

When all that is set, then it’s time to start contacting women that might interest you.

Many of us focus way too much on the looks before anything else, this is wrong.

I’m not saying that having a personal preference is wrong, but it’s wrong to base your decision on the looks above all else.

If you seek someone who will love and enrich your life without a lot of complications, then you need to let the inner qualities take the center of the stage.

There is no dancing around this.

You can find someone great looking with a beautiful inside too, but you need to let yourself see what’s beyond the shallow surface.

When you finally found a match that you want to talk to, it’s time to figure out a great opening.

You can either start with why you found her interesting, or something way out of context that has humor in it.

Avoid cliché questions that everybody asks, she already receives these a few hundred times a month.

You can e.g. ask how she is, but do not open with it.

Read the message you want to send before you send it and see if you would like a similar message yourself.

If she answers and show interest back, then be yourself and keep using the above.

If she answers in a short or rude way, then move on and find someone worthy of your time.

She might be shy, so you can give the conversation a few tries if you are not sure.

These are some basic tips about online dating for men, hope this gave you some insight on the journey of love.

I have one more tips to give before the article ends and that is where you can get the best results in a fun and exciting way.

I mentioned above about the inner qualities, Blinddate.com™ offers several features that really promote them.

I use it myself and have found it to be my favorite free online dating site so far, and I have tried a few.

Online dating should be a great place for finding true based on matching personalities, at Blinddate.com™ you will have several options to do so.

I recommend you to give Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour a shot if you seek someone for a serious relationship, these are by far the best features I have tried online for meeting people based on who they really are.

Just take a look and you will probably feel the same way as I do.

Good luck and all the best!

Advice for Online Blind Dating

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As the title mentions, this will all be about blind dating.

If you have ever tried blind dating in real life, then you know how exciting and rewarding it can become.

However, there is only one free online dating site that I know of that offers the possibility to blind date online for real.

The online blind dating site is Blinddate.com™.

Now, I’m a woman in the mid forties, have two gorgeous children as a single mother and work as a secretary.

When I mention blind dating to my friends, I always get two different answers depending on gender and not experience.

The women say that they are worried for their safety and the men say that she might not look or be as she is online.

Both of these statements are correct and I understand that it can create hesitation, but I feel that there are so many ways to avoid the above.

As a single mother and a woman, I need to think about the safety of my children and my own.

The one that will be a part of my family will have to be reliable and loving.
However, I feel that 99% will do their best and I always believe the best in people.

I do not let myself become scared of people who shouldn’t matter, but I do take precautions when I blind date.

First of all, if you blind date online, you will have much better options to control who you are talking to and might meet.

Looks can easily be verified through Skype or any other video-chat option.
Do not take pictures as verification.

Talk for a while and do not stress a meeting.

I understand that you can’t wait too long, then the person might head to someone else.

Though, it’s important that you can trust the one you will meet as much as possible.

If the person sounds pushy, easily annoyed, talk about money, being arrogant or any other bad characteristic features, then block the person and move on.
Do not waste your time.

This includes men and women alike.

Chat with someone who seems genuine and actually care about you and what you think.

Someone you can have an intelligent conversation that leads somewhere.

Blind dating through Blinddate.com™ is a much better option if you want security and feel more confident with who you meet.

They have two features that really promote ones’ inner qualities, these are called Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour.

Both of these features were developed to place your inner qualities in the center of attention as well as providing matches based on who you two truly are on the inside.

In other words, a much deeper level.

These are excellent choices if you want to try blind dating in a secure and fun environment.

For example, Blinddate Match will match you with several members each day based on personal grounds.

The results are based on a personal survey and analytics.

You will then be given a short and sweet presentation of each match on how you match each others personalities, both the good and the bad.

If you like what you see and want to start chatting, your profile pictures will become too blurry to see.

This is to let your personality become the first impression.

The more you two talk to each other, the clearer the pictures will become.

In the end, you will see who you have chatted with and can decide if he or she has become your new close friend or even someone to meet for a date.

Exciting is an understatement.

If you feel like meeting the person, then it’s time for the next steps.

Meet at a social place with people around the first few times, I do not recommend you going straight to each other homes or include alcohol in a party manner.

Let it be real and sweet.

Always have a fully charged mobile phone and tell someone close to you where you are going and when you will be back.

This is just common sense.

Finally, have fun!

Blind dating is for people who search for someone for their inside.

People become even more beautiful when they have a good heart.

Do not see it as a quest, see it as a fun life experience.

Even if the results or the person is not what you hoped for, you will still have grown and gained knowledge.

Hope this was informative!

Online Dating Tips For Women

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Admit it, online dating is fun, but it can also be overwhelming and hard.

Online dating might just be the best way to meet new people across the world no doubt, but to reach those extraordinary people who you want, you might sometimes need to tread through a pile of desperation.

There are a few tips and tricks that you can use to decrease the amount of people who are not serious towards you and your needs.

I will go through these a little down the road in this article.

Who am I? You might wonder.

My name is Stefanie and I’m part American and part German. Just got to the age of 42 and I’m no longer a single mother.

The last part might sound a little dodgy.

What I mean is that I was a single mother of two, but after a few tries through online dating, I found my soon to be husband.

The marriage is actually planned this July 2017, so you can understand my happiness with all of this.

Both for me and my kids.

But I needed to kiss a few frogs before I found my prince, so to speak.

I’ve been a frequent user of free online dating sites since early 2013, and I have dated around 4 people before I met my current Romeo.

Some were good and some were worse.

You might think that 4 years is a long time to find love through online dating, but I beg to differ.

Love is not something that should be stressed, and I have other things I love in life that is just for me.

I also have two wonderful kids and work that takes up a lot of time, so I was only seeking someone down-to-earth and reliable.

On the road of finding my Romeo, I also got three new girlfriends that I often have coffee with in the weekdays.

Two of them, together with my love, were found through Blinddate.com.
This is and has been the only free online dating site I have used these last two years.

I used something called Blinddate Match to find my man. He was not the only one I was talking with, but he was the most persistent.

Because we couldn’t see each others profile pictures, we had to rely on talking and information alone.

When you have talked for a while, the profile pictures become clearer, but I met my man before that.

He took me by storm on the first date by taking me to a snake farm.
I have never screamed so much in my life.

Two of the friends I mentioned was found through Blinddate Hour. We seemed to have similar interests and one thing led to another.

Now we drink, share stories and talk about the Mens sizes (just kidding).

But online dating has not always been easy and being a girl makes it even worse in my opinion.

In these 4 years of online dating, I’ve had my fair share of weird and chocking proposals.

This became limited to just a few after I switched to Blinddate.com™.

As a woman, you need to be strong and confident in yourself.
Don’t be arrogant, but see yourself as a catch.

You will receive a few messages that are not to your liking, just ignore these and block the users.

Most of the messages will be sincere.

First of all, you should use a great supplier like the one I mentioned above.
This will increase your chances of finding something real, as well as having a great time doing it.

Blinddate.com™ is the only one I’ve found that have features that really promotes your inner qualities, which should be the foundation of any relationship.

Some of the guys that will write to you might lack creativity.

This doesn’t mean they are not worth to answer, my man was both boring and plain in the beginning.

After eight or so messages, he started to open up and show a lot of humor.
So, give the guys a break.

When you’ve been chatting with a few, it’s time to start thinking about dating.
If they are worth your time and energy, make sure that you follow a few safety precautions.

Have a fully charged phone, tell someone where you will be going and when you will be back, and meet at a social place with people close by. Do not stress anything, and never include any talk of money when chatting or dating.

Take your time, don’t be naïve and enjoy your life.

The right guy is out there for you, you just need to be patient.

If you are a single mother, then you know how stressed the days can become.
Meeting someone spontaneous might be hard.

Online dating is perfect for you since there is a lot of like-minded and understanding people who would love to be dating single moms.

With or without kids of their own.

Don’t ever forget yourself and your needs, and give online dating a chance.
You will not regret it.

Good luck!

How To Choose The Right Online Dating Profiles

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That online dating works is not a secret anymore. There are countless of various statistics that prove that online dating works, and there is a good reason as why we are getting several new and free dating sites each year.

Old prejudices have changed to more open minds, and more people want to be a part of the community which is online dating.

Many users that have already found love with the help of online dating, still uses it to find new friends and like-minded people.

Each and every profile you lay your eyes on is a unique person, and every person has their own personality, interests and values.

This makes online dating always exciting, because you never know whom you might talk to or meet.

A short “hello” can turn into a long conversation and even a future.
You can literally find people who will change your life entirely and enrich every aspect of you and what you love.

But it’s not always sunshine and rainbows. Some bring their bad habits in real life to the online dating community.

Some profiles might even be used for marketing purposes or attention.
These profiles are just a few, but they are there.

So, how do you avoid online dating profiles that are not good for you?

Well, first you need to find a good provider.

I use Blinddate.com™ since their great new update.

The security, design and features are better than ever.

This is a free online dating site that brings two new features to the table to really promote your inner qualities.

These are Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour.

The reason why I recommend you using the site above, is because people (profiles) tend to be much more serious when they don’t just rely on a shallow surface.
Blinddate.com™ has really implemented a few new and unique ways to give you the best results possible, both in friendship and love.

When you have chosen one of the best online dating sites, then it’s time to search around for new and exciting people.

Now you need to decide what you actually look for.

If you don’t know, then just use it for some experience and fun.
What you want will come to you sooner or later.

When you have decided what you are looking for, it’s time to use your own common sense.

Basically, if you want something serious from the inside, then you might want to avoid shallow pictures and arrogant profile-texts.

Search for someone who include humor, goals or interests in their profiles.
Some might be shy or insecure, so their profiles may lack information and something for you do go on.

If you feel this is the case, then write something catchy to see how the person responds.

Then take it from there.

This is another thing that is great with online dating, you can try things out and don’t have to be scared about losing anything.

You will both grow and gain by testing around and meet new people.

Avoid profiles and messages that try to stress a meeting, talk about money or is obviously used for their own personal gain.

To create something great you need to let it take its time.

Don’t do or see anyone that you wouldn’t outside online dating.

Profiles that are used for marketing or personal gain are very few.

Profiles that seek attention or shallow meetings are many, but this depends a lot on what provider you use.

The rest is genuinely interested people who seek something long-lasting.
These are the people you should put your time and energy in.

Sure, every chat and meeting won’t lead to something more, but you just need one to make it all matter.

I recommend you to believe in yourself.

Don’t be too naïve or gullible, if your gut tells you something, then you should probably listen to it.

Don’t stress it either, dating sites for single people are meant to be a fun and exciting addition to your life.

Don’t give up if you happen to fail, just see it as a new experience in your journey to success.

And again, do check out Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour at

Blinddate.com™

You will become intrigued.

How well online dating works

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That online dating sites are growing on the market is not something new to any of us. Countless of free dating sites gets released year after year with the promise of finding love and friendship through them.

But how well do online dating sites work?

There are a lot of various statistics out there and depending on where you look, you might find a different number.

But to give you an idea, here are a few facts that most surveys agree upon.

  • With a population over 300 million in the United States, between 30-40% use some kind of platform for online dating. Even more if you count social media platforms.
  • Around 20% of the current committed relationships in the United States began online.
  • Over 70% planned their next date after their first one.
  • And around 40% of successful online dating led the marriages or serious long-term relationships.

So, if you do follow the statistics, then online dating seems to be a very reliable source for finding love.

If you do decide to try one of the top dating sites out there, you need to understand that the choice of platform is more important than you might think.

Just because it is a top dating site, doesn’t mean it’s automatically the right one for you.

As you might have heard, some people have really bad experiences with online dating.

Some might even say it’s filled with fake profiles or are just used for shallow purposes.

Again, it depends on which one of the top dating sites you use.

Everyone of them has their own pros and cons, so use your own common sense and find a supplier with tools and features that suit your needs best.

I’ll give you an example.

If you seek something serious that rely on the inner qualities, then you might need to look for a supplier with features that promote that.
A profile picture for e.g. just shows the outer layer of someone, you need to find a supplier that have their own unique ideas to promote your personality instead.

Online dating sites do work, and they do expand each year for a good reason. We urge you to give it a shot if you seek love or friendship.

You’ll have the possibility to meet thousands of singles in just one place, where most have the same intentions as you have.

All on your terms and in the security of your home.

If you’re scared or shy for some reason, then just try it out for the fun of it, it might open up some doors you wouldn’t believe existed.

Just use common sense, don’t be too naïve, and always be yourself.

If you do want a tip on a top dating site that do promote your inner qualities, then we can highly recommend you give Blinddate.com™ a go.

Not only can it be used as a search and chat-platform like many other suppliers, they also offer Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour.

To try out Blinddate Match, you’ll be offered to take part in a survey about yourself. Based on the analyze from the answer you give, you will be presented with several members a day that matched you based on psychological grounds. You will even be given a short presentation on how the analyze think your personalities will match each other.

If that sounds interesting, you can start chatting.

An important note is that both of your profile pictures will remain hidden when you start the conversation. The more you talk to each other, the clearer the pictures become.

The other exiting feature is the Blinddate Hour. Every day between 9.00 – 10.00 PM EST, if you choose it, all pictures on the site will become hidden. Now you can make your own attempts on searching and chatting, but only based on the information you can see on each profile, no pictures. When the time hit 10.00 PM EST, all pictures will be visible again and you can see whom you talked to.

Features like this will open up doors that might have been locked otherwise. This way you can start talking to people based on who they really are, and build a stronger foundation already in the beginning for love or friendship.

Blinddate.com™ is a free online dating site, so I urge you to try it out and decide if it’s the right one for you.

Regardless, online dating does work and the numbers speak for themselves. Just make sure you focus on having a great time and be happy no matter who you choose to use, that is the point of living.

How to choose the right online dating website

Online dating is an excellent way to meet new people and even find love. I have used various free dating sites for several years, I was even there when the first dating sites arrived.

Back in the beginning of the online dating era, the options were limited and people’s opinions often made you feel bad for using a dating site.

I remember that some of my friends said that online dating was only for the desperate ones, the ones that couldn’t find love like everyone else.

Thinking back, it brings a smile across my face.

Oh, how wrong they were.

Every single one of my friends that had that opinion back then are using some kind of top dating site today.

It’s pretty ironic really.

I think those comments came from people who were proud and insecure, and not from an actual opinion.

Regardless of the reasons, free dating sites are now dominating the web and millions of people are using them daily.

If you would ever doubt the positive results a top dating site can offer, then I urge you to try it for yourself and check the many statistics that you can find online.

But there are some things you need to think about if you want to try online dating, regardless if you are looking for friends or love.

 

Decide what you want out of online dating

This will decide what online dating site you should use, how you should set your profile up and how you should interact with people.

If you are just looking for attention, well then you can pretty much use any dating site.

If you are looking for something serious and long-lasting, the decisions you make will matter a lot.

Decide on one of the best online dating sites

You should use one of the top dating sites out there. The reason is that they often offer better security, more verified members and more features that will help you on your journey, and they are often more fun as well.

Make sure that the one you choose has a free alternative, this way you can evaluate if the top dating site suit your needs or not.

“No one wants to buy a pig in a poke.”

So, which ones do I use and recommend?

I started out with eHarmony and Match.com.

These dating sites were the first ones to hit the online market.

I turned to them because I was a more introvert person that still longed for love.

I wasn’t the person that liked clubs and alcohol, I was more the one you went fishing or travelling with.

These dating sites were good, but in the following years, even better dating sites arrived.

After trying various dating sites in the following years, I am now a frequent user of Blinddate.com™

The reasons are many, but mostly because it has features that promote the inner qualities.

I mean, they don’t use the name “Blind Date” for nothing.

I recommend you to take a look for yourself.

Blinddate.com™ is a top dating site with a free alternative.

I also want to mention two unique features that you might love if you, like me, are in the look for someone beautiful on the inside.

These features are named Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour.

Blinddate Match

This new and unique feature really shows how far science has taken us.  By taking a short personality test of 41 questions, they can match you with several other members on a psychological level. The analyze will also offer you and your match a short and fun presentation on how you match each other, both the good and the bad. You then have the option to start chatting if you find the results interesting. Your profile pictures will remain hidden in the beginning of the conversations, but the more get to know each other, the clearer the pictures become. This lets you get to know people on a more personal level.

Blinddate Hour

This is an exciting new feature that will be offered every day between 9.00 – 10.00 PM EST if you want. What it does is that it will hide all the pictures on the top dating site in that 1 hour. You will now have to make your own attempts on searching and contacting people, but you won’t be able to see who you talk with. You will basically have to make your decisions based purely on the information you find. When the hour comes to an end, all picture will become visible again. Now you can see whom you talked with and decide if you want to continue the conversation. This as another unique way to promote the inside first.

If you do not wish to use the blind date option, then you can use the top dating site as any other free dating site out there.

Blinddate.com™ is just a very good dating site that offers more possibilities, especially if you are looking for something serious.

But just because a dating site is great for me, doesn’t mean it’s great for everyone else.

So, I recommend you to try Blinddate.com™ for yourself. But I can promise you that it won’t become any more personal then there.