Is online dating getting worse?


As the title says, is online dating getting worse?

What I mean is that many find that online dating in America is getting more dangerous, fraudulent, fake, complicated and shallow.

In one way, all of these are true.

Online dating all over the world has taken a turn for the worse, but mainly because many suppliers think more about their wallet than their members.

Most of the negative sides of online dating in America can be solved fairly easily with some creative thinking, a supportive team and also money.

Having unique features and a team that keep the dating site safe and clean will cost a lot of money, which most suppliers don’t have.

In other words, online dating hasn’t gotten any worse, the online dating sites have.

Choosing the best dating site in America for you is mandatory for finding someone who’s serious and genuine in their search for true love.

There are different types of dating sites for different types of people, yet most popular dating sites in America have the most basic and shallow features.

Kind of ironic if you ask me.

We want to find our soul mate, yet turn to free dating sites that promote a superficial way of dating or don’t offer any proper ways of finding serious relationships at all.

You basically check if the profile picture appeal to you and decide if you want to write to him or her or not.

Yes, some dating sites even offer a few sentences for profile text and the city you live in, but how can that in any way create an opening for something deeper?

Basically, the few that succeed on those sites are the ones who are patient, professional in communicating online, have a great photo and keep at it the longest or very lucky works too.

Most are regular kindhearted people who just want someone to love the rest of their lives, but these sites pushes those people to the sides.

I may come off as a little cynical here, but if you are honest with yourself, then you know that free online dating sites in America doesn’t offer much more than that.

However, there are a few that have taken the extra steps to ensure that their members have the best and safest experience possible with unique features that actually provide results for everyone.

Most of these dating sites have specific targeted groups, e.g. Single moms in America, loving men in America, homosexual singles in America etc.

These dating sites has focus on something that they believe people want, rather than focus on everything in the most basic way possible.

By being more specific in what you want and choosing an online dating site that actually provides some unique features in a safe environment, you can much easier find someone genuine that suits you perfect.

Another big benefit is that most fake, rude, fraudulent or unauthorized profiles will immediately be deleted and blocked on these sites since they have a team that works whole-heartedly on a different and better goal.

In other words, these sites have put money, heart and effort creating a dating site that actually can provide results based on inner qualities, values and interests.

Something deeper so to speak.

I have come across one site that isn’t too specific, yet provide exactly what I want a free dating site in America should provide.™ is a great online dating site in America that focus on inner qualities in the best way possible, namely through blind dating.

They got two features that I especially love, one is called Blinddate Match and the other is called Blinddate Hour.

Blindate Match is a feature where you take part in a famous psychological survey about who you are on the inside, the matches will later be based on the analyze from the answers you give and vice versa.

When you are matched with another member, you will also receive a short and fun presentation on how you match each other’s personalities, both the good and the bad.

If that sounds interesting, you can decide to start chatting with each other.

However, the profile picture will then remain hidden, but the more you write to each other, the clearer the picture will become.

This is an excellent way to promote ones inner qualities and let the first meeting be 100% personal, which also create possibilities for finding great new friends.

Blinddate Hour takes part each day between 9-10 PM EST, if you choose to take part in the future, then all pictures on the entire site will become hidden for you.

You then have to search for members based entirely on the information you find and see if he or she is someone you want to talk to.

When the time hits 10 PM EST, all pictures will become clear again and you can see whom you talked to.

Exciting, isn’t it?

I for one really recommend sites like™ since they provide so many benefits to the dating community with the best and safest way possible.

I urge you to take a look at their site and see for yourself, I’m guessing that you’ll be happily surprised.

Either way, online dating is not getting worse at all, on the contrary.

Online dating is exploding on the market with millions of users already, and the statistics talk for online dating site and the relationships they’ve made possible.

Just make sure you choose the right one, or you will just waste your time, lust and energy.

Best of luck!


Love and online dating when you’re retired

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Love is not a feeling that changes with age, but how we think is.

The only thing that change with age is how we look at things and how we react to our emotions.

Love however, will stay the same no matter if we’re young or old, if you let love in.

In my years alone from the age of 52 to 63, I’ve only seen a few couples in my age that hold hands and act as they are in the mid twenties.

I’m now 67 myself, and been with the same man for the past 4 years.

We hold hands, we kiss in public and we make sure we travel the world as much as our bodies can take.

Most of my friends have been married for over 30 years and I feel that many of them are together because they don’t have the energy or self-esteem to start over.

One of my friends even said the words -”I’m too old to start over now”.

If that is something you as a reader have said, then i would immediately say that those words are utterly wrong.

Don’t give up on life and settle for less just because you’re older, always live life to the fullest as much as you can.

I can understand that some have sickness or other things that have a tendency of limiting the way you want to live your life.

However, we humans have an amazing way of adapting to our situation and surroundings, so I bet that 99% of you can change your life for the better in a very short period of time.

Don’t let normal problems come in the way of love, they are entirely different things no matter how you look at them.

Love can also open doors to help you get through almost anything in life.

First things first, how do you find love as one of thousands of retired singles in America?

Well, if you do have some energy and love for adventure in your body, then I recommend you to travel the world.

There is nothing better for your soul than to meet other people from other culture and shake your hips a little.

Some don’t like to travel too much and want to be in a safe and cozy environment, for you I recommend meeting friends and try to attend as many social gatherings as you can.

There are literally thousands of retired singles in America that long for meeting their true soul mate, even in your state.

There are another way as well, a more easy and exciting way that helped me meet my true love in America.

I used something called online dating.™ is the name of the dating site for retired singles in America. The free online dating site is actually for everyone of all ages, but they offer something that we retired people find a little more important than most youngsters.

They offer love from within, meeting someone for who they actually are.

They got two features that are amazing for just this purpose, and the first one is the one I used to meet my current Romeo.

These features are Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour.

Blinddate Match helps you become matched with other people based on who you are, value and is interested in.

When you find one that catch your interest, you will also be presented a short text that will tell just how you match each other on a personal level, both the good and the bad.

If that sounds interesting the excitement starts.

You will now start chatting with each other, but without seeing each others profile pictures.

The more you write to each other, the clearer the pictures become.

Great way of meeting someone from within and it will create an opening of meeting great new friends as well in the process.

Blinddate Hour follows a similar principle, but take time between 9 – 10 PM EST every day if they still offer the same as they offered me.

If you participate, all profile pictures will become hidden and you can now search and chat with different members based on the information you find.

You can see the pictures and who you talk to again when the time hit 10 PM EST.
This is also a great way if finding someone for who they really are.

I can truly recommend everyone to give online dating for retired people in America a chance, especially the one I recommended above.

This is because it worked for me and it will work for you, plus you don’t have to deal with complicated features or people who are not there for serious purposes.

You are wonderful, like a fine whiskey that just become better for each year that follows, don’t be alone when you can be loved.

Let yourself try something now, you will be surprised by the results.

Benefits of Online Dating


We all know that online dating can become extremely fun and exciting, but is it really beneficial?

Well, the short answer would be that it depends what you are looking for.

An online dating site in America is an excellent choice to meet new and exciting people, regardless if you want it for a short time or for the rest of your life.

Most top dating sites in the USA promote themselves as the best dating site in America for a certain type of people.

The main one would be people who are in search for true love from within and long-lasting relationships based on their inner qualities.

However, we all know that most free dating sites in America market themselves as great for a certain purpose but delivers poorly.

This is for two reasons mainly.

One is that keeping a dating site safe and secure while providing great features that are unique cost a lot of money, time and effort.

The other is that many are out for your wallet, not your heart.

This is common sense.

There are a few sites that have the means to create a great looking dating site with amazing features; these are the ones you should look for.

Those are the best dating sites in America and will become beneficial regardless what you are looking for.

The rest will just consume your time, lust and energy for nothing.

I always recommend my friends to find a free dating site that gives you the possibility to evaluate the dating site before you choose if you should make it your own cupid.

Paying money for nothing or shallow ways is not the way to go if you are looking for true love.

An example of the latter is e.g. paying for a feature that lets you be seen more often by other members for a week.

You should search for a provider that offers more than just a profile picture and a short presentation.

Let’s go back to the benefits.

Online dating is great for many different things, not only finding love.

By communicating with others, you’ll also learn from others.

You will become more comfortable, confident and experienced the more you chat with and meet various people with different personalities and stories.

Even a bad date can create an opening for exceptional growth.

It can also create possibilities for you to find new careers and adventure, just make sure that you are not naïve and can trust the person first.

You can find a lot of new friends on your journey for love.

These are just a few of examples on benefits with using top dating sites in America.

However, if you are in search for something true and long-lasting, then you need to choose the right provider.

Follow the points I wrote above and use both your common sense and gut-feeling.

You will come a long way on this.

Experience and knowledge come with time.

I can highly recommend the dating site I use for meeting people online.

The name of the free dating site is™.

I don’t want to say too much because I don’t want to spoil the surprise by joining them, but I can say that it’s very exciting there.

I mean it; the site gives me the good kind of chills.™ lets you try real blind dating online which may just be the most exciting and even the best way to meet someone for their inner qualities.

The free dating site is also beautifully built and very easy-to-use.

The support and team that works there make sure to provide help, tips and advice along the way.

You also got a more secure atmosphere there since the team makes sure that no fake, rude or unauthorized profile is allowed to be a part of™.

I know, a little too much promoting, but in all honesty – the dating site is great!

Just make sure that you figure out what you truly want and take it from there. Do not listen to what the suppliers say, try it out for yourself.

When you know at least partly who you are, you will immediately know what kind of top free dating site you should use.

The benefits are endless then.

Best of luck to you!

Why are relationships complicated?

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In this article, I will mention a few opinions why I think many find relationships complicated and hard to keep.

Remember that these are my own opinions and doesn’t have to correspond to your own.

You are free to think and feel as you please.

I’ve been in three relationships myself in my entire life. First one was when I was fifteen and other two was in the last five years, I’m 32 years of age now.

First one lasted a year, second four years and the third a year again. In other words, the last one broke just a few months ago.

My thoughts have been circulating for a while now about why I can’t keep a steady relationship and I have a few ideas of why.

First one is kind of basic; we were not meant to be.

This is actually much more true than most would admit I think, since most don’t want to accept that something like that can be the case.

I mean, we were in love at some point and had great plans for the future, I think we rather stick to that thought rather than a waste of time.

The other reasons are communication and sacrifice.

Sometimes you need to put the one you love before your own interests, which many forget or don’t want anymore when the relationship is taken for granted.

Communication by speech and body-language is to express your feelings both good and bad, and also to solve issues before they become too big.

Most couples keep their feelings on the inside and sooner or later they explode for the most ridiculous reasons.

In my relationships, we lacked communication.
We thought that some issues didn’t matter until it ate our lust and energy so slowly that we didn’t realize it before it was too late.

This is partly my fault and their fault, if one can’t dance the other one has to lead in the beginning.

You always need two to Tango.

However, the reason why I think 90% of all relationships end is because of the first reason – not meant for each other.

We give all our love, time and energy for something and sometimes it just doesn’t work.

Better to accept it and embrace the feelings instead of hiding from it.

All of my relationships were found through friends.

Each of these girls was the best girl I had at the moment, that doesn’t mean that we were necessarily right for each other.

We based our decision on the information we had at the moment, being lonely and need of intimacy was a huge factor as well.

It’s nice to just have someone, even if they may not be the one.

I believe in giving the relationship more time to grow and become strong before you make it more or less official.

Not knowing the person on the inside and on a deeper level may crash the relationship in the future.

We usually show our own “faults” a few months in, when the new love feeling has faded and everything goes back to normal.

Basically, let love grow slowly instead of forcing it because you miss it.

Two weeks ago, I tried blind dating for the first time.

It was awkward, scary, but very interesting.
You learned a lot in the few hours you were there, but it didn’t end up with a date in my case.

I started Google on blind dating since I was intrigued and found a free online dating site called™.

I have just used the site for around 10 days, but it opened my eyes to something, namely everything I wrote above on what was good for love.

They decided to create an online dating site for American singles that focus entirely on the information, or inner qualities to be more specific.

Basically, you start to know the inner qualities and break the eyes before you even meet!

With thousands of different people and personalities, you don’t have to meet the one who seems great at the moment, you can actually give it time and let it grow to find the best one for you, and vice versa.

I love the idea and I know it may be too early to praise the site, but I genuinely love the idea of blind dating online in a more secure environment.

I’m sorry for rambling on and on, I hope that I made a little sense at least.

Try™ and let love start from within, but in a slow pace that both can enjoy to creating something deeper.

Then you won’t need to see relationships as complicated any more.

Good luck!

Will online dating cost me anything?

Will online dating cost me anything

Yes, online dating does cost you something, but maybe not in the way you think.

Most who read the title think about money when they read the word “cost”, but many forget about lust, time and energy.

However, the right lifestyle for you together with the right choice of dating site will give you lust, time and energy instead.

Money will still be a cost, but the few dollars you pay may become an investment for life.

Though again, only if you choose the right kind of online dating site.

Most dating sites today follow a kind of shallow approach.

However, you can’t blame most of them for being simple and easy for everyone to use.

You register – put up a nice profile picture, a few sweet sentences as profile text and then you search for people based on the looks of their profile picture.

Very few read the profile text at all on those sites and most just read a few of the sentences with little to no interest.

Basically, most sites today are extremely superficial.

In my opinion, this cost lust, time and energy much more than it should.

To give you another example, most online dating sites today, has features which follow the above principles exactly, but for a few dollars, you can show your profile picture to even more members for a week.

Some dating sites even allow you to rate the profile picture and give you a clever icon like “this weeks hottest”.

This saddens me because it won’t give most the results they want – which is true love with someone genuine and serious.

This cost even more, namely – money, lust, time and energy.

It might even put your self-esteem and will to a negative.

Expensive if you ask me.

What can you do then?

Have you ever heard this quote? – “Work smarter, not harder.”

This applies in dating and love as well.

Choosing the right dating site will cost you nothing, you will only gain from it and you won’t have to put as much of an effort in.

You don’t need to crave attention, be someone else, pretend to be happy all the time, play games, focus on your profile look, spend money or anything else if you just know what you should look for.

A great dating site in America will do that for you.

Yes, dating sites need money too, and have a big interest in earning revenue.

Dating sites are a business too, but they don’t need to take money from members with useless junk just to earn a buck.

They can get revenue from affiliation, commercials, sales, information and marketing or even sell their site in the future.

In other words, you can find a great looking dating site with great features that is still free of charge toits members.

Let me give you an example on a free dating site I use. is not new on the market, have years of experience and have exploded on the market because of their unique features.

If you are looking for true love in America based on inner qualities, then this is the best dating site in America hands down.

More importantly, it’s free.

They have other ways to earn money without affecting its members.

It won’t cost you a dime, but you will gain a lot from it.

Yes, they do have some features that you can buy that are effective, but you don’t need them to find someone special in America.

They got two different features that I especially love, one is Blinddate Match and the other is Blinddate Hour.

I use them both and can highly recommend them to anyone who wants to try exciting blind dating online.

Basically, this free dating site focuses entirely on inner beauty to create something that really lasts.

They have a lot more to offer for those who want to take it slow, but I urge you to at least take a look at these features to evaluate them yourself.

You will with no doubt gain lust, time and energy, even true love if you are willing.

I want to highlight the word “willing”, because it’s not about luck on that site.

In any case, make sure you date smart and not hard.

There are thousands of free dating sites out there that offer the very best, but there are only very few that really delivers.

Don’t listen to anyone or any supplier, see it for yourself.

I can only recommend what I know works for me and those around me, but only you know what is best for you.

Best of luck!

Is online dating difficult?

Is online dating difficult

More and more people across the world are joining the online dating community that expands by the tenfold each year. New online dating sites are being developed fast, mostly because people can see fast results from it. There are countless of statistics that prove the benefits of online dating, so you can be sure that the benefits apply to you as well.

However, there are only a few dating sites in the world that really provide anything worth-while.

Most online dating sites have a tendency of lacking creativity and dedication.
Basically, most suppliers focus more on their wallets than their members.
You can see this very clearly which dating sites that don’t offer anything productive or being all too shallow in its ways.

If we take the negative influenced dating sites mentioned above, then finding love can become really difficult.

Using the dating site will most likely be very easy, but finding a love connection with someone genuine and serious will be slim to none.

This is due to the fact that the suppliers don’t keep track of their members so that fake, rude and unauthorized profiles can run around freely.

It’s also due to the fact that they don’t offer their members any features that promote their inner qualities, which is the foundation of love to begin with.

The most common type of online dating sites in America is for example dating sites that give you the possibility to search and contact members based on their profile pictures.

Some of them offer a profile text and some light information about the person.
However, the focus of random people will be placed on the looks, not the heart.

One may argue that it’s not easy to offer features that give its members something more and meaningful on a personal level, and that the members of the dating site have the responsibility to market themselves.

This is why I say they lack creativity.

If you join a free dating site in America with the hopes of finding true love, then you need to evaluate the dating site to see if they actually care about their member’s success.

Not to say they do, but actually do it.

Having just a profile picture with a great angle and three clever sentences in a profile text, then I’d argue that even Facebook is better and offers more to the dating community.

Find something unique, safe, fun and exciting instead that make you want to log in again and again, features that actually provide you results and is satisfactory.

The reason of using an online dating site is to find true love and a lasting relationship, isn’t it?

To answer the question of the title – no, online dating is not difficult at all, but it takes some getting used to.

First of all, you need to find the right dating site for you.

If you are in search for a soul mate in America based on who they truly are on the inside, then avoid superficial dating sites that promote your looks.

The one in America is not found easy, but it will be a lot easier if you join a dating site that actually attracts serious people.

I can give you an example that will make the search for the one in America much easier and a lot more exciting.

I recommend blind dating, and for that I recommend the free online dating site™.

Being specific and target the audience when you are in search for the best dating site in America is crucial to avoid the bad ones I just wrote about above.
Be careful, many dating sites market themselves as something they are not.

One example can be that they write “find true love based on your personality”, but they offer nothing that actually gives the possibility for it.
Blind dating isan excellent choice if you look for serious love from within, doing it online make it a lot safer with no pressure in any form.™ is a great dating site in America for Americans that have two very unique features called Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour.

These features really put your inner qualities to the front and make every meeting meaningful from day one.

Don’t let blind dating scare you, everyone has preferences for looks, but blind dating help prioritizing what is most important for a long-lasting relationship.
With inner beauty comes stronger outer beauty.™ is a wonderful dating site in America with much to offer to the dating community.

They expand fast and have thousands of members joining each month, I should know, since I work with investments and need to be on track for anything good that comes up.

It doesn’t matter if you are a single mother looking for love or just a lone wolf that had enough of traveling alone; this is the dating site for you.

Check it out for yourself; don’t take my word for it.

Good luck!

Which online dating sites should you avoid?

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I’m guessing that many of you who read the title think I will blast and blame several sites in the dating community, this is wrong.

I’m here to give my opinion on what you should and shouldn’t look for in a free online dating site in America.

There is a reason why millions are turning to online dating world-wide, isn’t it strange that so many are still single?

If you make one quick Google search on dating statistics in America, you will find thousands of different surveys and numbers that tell the benefits of using an online dating site.

Most of these are very true, and even if some numbers may be a little off – the benefits are still well documented and positive.

When and if you are in the look for the perfect dating site in America for yourself, then you need to first figure out what lead to that thought and feeling.

The need or interest in a dating site doesn’t come from nothing, there is a reason and the reason can both be serious or simple.

The most common reasons are:

  • Lack of time, energy or lust to find someone outside the internet.
  • Distances and lack of transport to or from the destination.
  • Lonely or in need of intimacy.
  • Lack of interesting people in your area or comfort-zone.
  • Tired of alcohol and pushy people.
  • Looking for more serious and genuine people than what you’ve found.
  • Single mother or single father looking for long-term relationships.
  • Retired people wanting to feel love again, but find it hard to find someone.
  • Personal issues like e.g. trust, insecurity or self-esteem.

As you can see, there are a lot of reasons why someone turn to online dating.
There are more, but these are the most common.

All of these examples are negative in a sense, but can turn into something very positive.

An inside or outside element has created one of the possibilities above, but they can be turned and online dating sites are an excellent choice for it.

However, not all dating sites.

Some sites can actually create more negative elements on your journey for love, choosing the best one for you is crucial for finding true love online.

Most free online dating sites in America offer their own pros and cons.
In my opinion, mostly cons.

Why is that?

Well, most online dating sites for finding true love in America is too underdeveloped, shallow, complicated, expensive and simple.

I will give you a few examples:

  • If you choose an online dating site that promotes your looks instead of your inner qualities, guess what response you’ll get.
  • If you choose a simple online dating site that doesn’t have a reliable support, security, validation process and controllers, guess what kind of people you’ll meet.
  • If you choose an online dating site that tries to push you on buying perks like “be seen more for a week”, that will just take you back to the first example here on looks.
  • If you choose an online dating site that forces you to take a lot of steps just to get started, then you may as well put your time elsewhere.

What should you look for?

Well, everything opposite actually.

Most online dating sites for finding love and long-term relationships in America are basic – a profile picture, few sentences for a profile text and a chat- & search feature.

This works on good online dating sites that promote a specific target group.

Examples you can search for are; Single trainers in America, Single moms in America, Single fathers in America, Retired singles in America, Interracial singles in America, you name it.

The more specific you are – the better, but they will most likely have fewer members and less money to run the dating site with.

I recommend you try finding specific features instead, that will give you a higher chance finding something new and exciting that actually work.

They may have fewer members as well, but using unique features cost a lot of money, dedication and knowledge – best online dating site possible in other words.

To recommend one, I urge you to take a look at™.

This free online dating site is both lavish and more specific, but not to a targeted group per sé.

They focus on love from the inside, your inner qualities in other words.

Their features are developed to promote who you are and place your personality first before anything else.

You can try real blind dating in America with exciting features like e.g. Blinddate Match and Blinddate Hour.

The first feature matches you with other members based on a psychological test on who you really are, you will also receive a short and fun presentation of each match.

If you find it interesting and you both want to chat with each other, then your profile pictures will become hidden.

The more you talk to each other, the clearer the pictures become.

See the video on their site to know more about these exciting features.

The second one is a time-based features which follow a different protocol, but with the same goal. is growing fast on the market in several countries and may be the best online dating site in America for true love from within.
At least that’s my opinion.

Check it out!

I think you understand where I’m going with this article and I really hope you take a deeper look on the dating site you’re about to use.

Choosing the wrong one will take your time and energy, and will also affect your personal feelings and opinions to the worse.

Choose from your heart, not the suppliers marketing tricks.

Best of luck!